Gentleman Update

Sorry for keeping you waiting on an update! Until I logged in today, I didn't realize I had so many readers...ok, well a few anyhow ;)

So, of course I called the gentleman who saved me from my last horrific date....

We shall call him Mr. H (short for Hero ;) Anyhow, I called Mr. H on a Sunday afternoon and it seemed as if he knew it was me before I even said hello. He told me he had hoped I would call and was happy to hear from me. He did not hesitate in asking me out and I did not hesitate in say yes (duh!)

So, we have a date for this Saturday night. Honestly, Im kind of nervous, I mean, he is handsome, smart, kind, rich and a hero! I have never dated a superhero before ahahaha....

Ok, so now I need some help...I have my dress picked out but not sure which shoes to wear....help me? Please! Here is my dress and two pairs of shoes I bought (online, of course) at ShoeSale.com the best website ever for shoes!!



The Dress-

Shoe Choice 1-



Shoe Choice 2 -

So, what do you think, Shoe 1 or 2? Please help, leave a comment with your opinions!! Thanks ♥

My First Sugar Daddy-Sugar Baby Date

Ok, so I have been busy with life but I managed to finally go on my first date with this guy I talked to a few times. We will call him Shaun.

My first date with a Sugar Daddy and what a fucking nightmare! I was nervous as hell so I had a few drinks at the bar before he showed up. I started feeling a little more at ease and when he came I was ready to play the role of sugar Baby. At first the date started out ok, he was kinda cute and a gentleman, well dressed and softly spoken, for all of an hour.

We ate, we drank, all was merry until he leaned over to kiss me...in public! Um, no. I kindly turned him down by turning my cheek, he didn't like that much and rolled his eyes at me. We finished our last drink and headed outside. We walked into the parking lot and as we talked he kept inching closer to me. His tone changed and he suddenly became someone completely different than he had been at the beginning of the date. Trying to make things a bit lighter, I asked him about work (he had told me he owned a major company) and for some reason this question irritated him so I switched the topic. I asked him where he was parked and he gestured to the left. I offered to walk him to his car and he suddenly snapped on me out of nowhere! "Why the fuck do you want to see my car so bad, you a fucking tire biter?"

WHOA....what the hell?? I looked at him and said look honey, it was great meeting you but I should go, I don't think there is any chemistry here and you don't seem to be in the best of moods, so perhaps we should just go our separate ways..... Ok, he didn't like this either, surprise, surprise. He grabbed my arm and asked me why I was so frigid, why I was being such a bitch. I nicely, and calmly told him I was sorry if I came across that way but that I didn't care for the way he was acting all of a sudden and that he was crossing some boundaries.

He leaned in to kiss me again, trying my best not to slap him, I again turned away. "Look", I told him, I have to go. At this point, his hand, which had been on my arm, gripped me tightly and he stared at me for a few seconds then, looking me straight in the face, called me a tease and a whore! Ok, I had had enough of this asshole. I was in a public place and there were people around so I was not afraid of him. I pulled my arm out of his grip and um, slapped him across the face.

Ok, so this probably wasn't the best thing to do, who knows how he was going to react, but it was like it just came out of me. At this point a gentleman across the parking lot who had been watching us, with out us knowing ran over and asked if everything was all right. Shaun started going off about what a bitch and whore I was and how I had lead him on etc....the gentleman told him to shut up and go home, that he had obviously drank too much and should learn how to treat a lady. (thank you kind sir ;)

Feeling out numbered, Shaun mumbled some profanities as he walked across the parking lot to his car......an old broke down, rusty Ford!! Um, he had told me he drove a brand new Ford pickup, done to the nines...bla bla bla....I couldn't help but laugh and feel kinda stupid at the same time. O well, we win some, we lose some.

The gentleman who had come to 'rescue' me asked me of I was ok and what the hell I was doing out with a loser like that. Not knowing what to say I said I was set up with him. Mr. Gentleman apologized for not minding his own business but said he had come out and seen us talking and that it was obvious I looked uncomfortable, so he had waited to make sure everything was ok. I thanked him and told him it was very kind of him. I then told him I had to go use the phone to call a taxi so I could go home and forget about all of this.

He offered me a ride home but I kindly refused, explaining that I didn't know him and although what he had done was extremely kind, I had better just call a taxi. He pulled out his cell phone and offered to call the taxi for me and told me he was going to wait with me until it came in case Shaun came back for any reason. He also then pulled out his wallet and gave me a hundred dollar bill, telling me that a lady should never have to pay for her way home after a date, especially a bad one.

LIGHT BULB!! This was a real gentleman standing before me and obviously one who had some money to spend, I mean a 100 bill for a cab ride? So, I made some small talk with him, asking him where he was from, what he did for work etc....turns out he had retired at 35, no longer 'needing' to work, was recently divorced from his cheating wife, 2 full grown kids and although his main home was in my area, he also had a condo in Brazil and a cabin in Alaska....two of his favourite places to visit. WHOA!

As my cab pulled up he opened the door and I got in. Before he closed it, he handed me a card and told me I should call him if I were ever interested in going on a date with a real gentleman. I thanked him again and told him I would consider it and to have a great evening.

As the cab pulled away I sat there thinking to myself., did this just really happen? I go on a date with a fake wanna be Sugar Daddy and end up being rescued by a real, rich potential Sugar Daddy? Yep, it did.....

Sugar Daddy #3 and Some Girl on Girl Action

C is still away, until Saturday I believe. Im anxiously waiting for him to get back so we can meet. Until then, I have kept myself busy with taking to Jay. He is very open about the entire Sugar Daddy Sugar Baby Relationship which is great, but also a little intimidating to me since this all so new to me.

When he asked me what I wanted from a Sugar Daddy Sugar Baby Relationship I straight out told him that I wanted to be spoiled for once and why not date a guy who wants to spoil a girl? I also made it clear that attraction is important and that Im not a hooker looking to get paid for sex. Just wanted to make that clear.

So, on my Seeking Arrangement Profile it says Im open to both Men and Women, and while that is true, I wouldn't say I am a lesbian, but eery so often yes, there will be a girl I am attracted to. Jay really seems to like this, he keeps mentioning it. I thought this may be a great oppurtunity to also help a good friend of mine, well, my best friend. She is a single mom of three young kids and could use some finacial help for sure. Her and I have been Best Friends since Gr. 3 and have been through everything together. Well, almost everything....

I thought hey, if Jay likes some girl on girl action, why the hell not? My Best Friend and I could give him a show, I mean, not like her and I haven't fooled around before. Besides, getting it on with my best friend while some guy watches is much more appealing to me than having sex with some dude for money or gifts......couldn't do it....But hell, gimme a few drinks and my hot best friend, name the right price and you can watch all you like ahahahahaaa....Dont ask to join in though, not gonna happen.

On another note, everything that goes on with all of this I share with my boyfriend of course. We are very open and honest with each other. I think the idea of this kinda makes him hot.....but then my boyfriend gets turned on by a lot of things most boyfriends, let alone men, wouldn't. But hey, I love him!

Ugh, gotta go work....ttyl xoxo

Super Spy

So I decided since I'm pretty computer savvy, why not use my skills to spy on my potential Sugar Daddies. After all, I don't want to waste any time with a fake Sugar Daddy or Wanna Be...I don't have the time for that.

I haven't messaged M back, after chatting with C and spying on him, I'm way more interested in meeting him. Turns out he is who he says he is. How do I know? Well, I have his first name, his phone number, he told his job as well as where he lives. Put those into Google and if they are important enough, you get results ;)

Wow, this guy is a big deal, his name is all over the net. Now, of course I cannot tell you who he is, that would just be wrong, but what I can tell you is he is President of multiple major companies. He is also very kind and so far there is no pressure what so ever. I hate pressure!

So, hopefully I will meet C when he gets back from his trip. OMG, what will I wear? I need a Sugar Daddy to take me shopping for my date with my other Sugar Daddy...hahahhah...

Oh, and I think I need to do some research on Sugar Daddy Sugar Baby Relationship, who is supposed to chase who? It is like 50/50, do I chase him or let him chase me? Perhaps it depends on the man, oh, I dont know, I guess it's time to study....

Till next time,
xoxo

Sharing Myself

I figured I should say a bit about myself here as if anyone does happen to read this, they will only assume who I am.

I'm 28, I'm a single mom of two young children. I have been on my own since I was 13 and have done pretty well for myself considering all I have been through. I work and make decent money, just not enough to get me ahead, hence the reason I am looking for a Sugar Daddy.

I am smart, honest and a good person. I just feel why not let someone take care of me for once? I am a little run down here and tired of stressing about money! I want my kids to have a happy mommy, I want to be the best for them.

Ideally, I am hoping to find a Sugar Daddy who wants to get together no moe than once a week for some company, dinner, drinks, dancing etc.... In no way am I interested in a man who wants to buy me gifts or give me money for sex. No, no, Im not stupid, of course that is there intention, however, not all of them want a girl who is just going to put out on the first date. They like the chase, all men like a little challenge. no?

Anyhow, I cant say it will never happen, but only if there is a real connection and attraction. Ugh, I could never have sex for money, and yes I can say that for real as I have been offered many times as I am a former exoctic dancer and was offered all sorts of things for all sorts of things. I was one of the few dancers that said no to these men, Im just not that desperate for cash and I do have morals, thank you ;)

Oh, did I mention that I have a boyfriend?? hahaha...I guess that may be interesting to some. We have been together for almost 8 months and yes, he knows all about this and is ok with it. I guess the reason being that right now, with him going back to school he cannot afford to help me out like he wishes he could. He is also very open and as long as I am honest with him, he is ok with me doing whatever makes me happy. Now, of course, I do not yet have a Suggar Daddy so who knows if he will feel the same once I actually find one and start seeing him.

Only time will tell....

xoxo

Hmmm....Pepe' s Paradise...I think I will pass...

Wow, there are quite some characters on this website, Seeking Arrangement. I was invited to Pepe's Paradise over in Mexico, but he only wants lazy women that are bisexual. Needless to say I passed, although lying on the beach all day does sound tempting.....

I started talking to another guy, we shall call him C. He is quite charming. He is 45 and has two children as well, although much older than mine. He seems like quite a gentleman and is interested in becoming friends first before anything else. I felt a lot less pressure from C than I did the first guy, who we will call M.

I haven't talked to M again, mainly because I am more interested in C. He wanted to meet this weekend but it was too short notice for me so I asked him about meeting up this week but he is taking his son on a fishing trip so next week it is.

Thinking about meeting him is exciting to me right now, mainly because of the potential this could have. However, when it comes to the actual day to meet I know my nerves will get me. That day will be the real test as to weather or not I can actually do this.

Until then, I am entertained with the emails I receive on the site. There are a lot of men looking for a travel partner. Maybe if I didn't have two kids.....could be fun. I mean, who wouldn't love to travel the world at someone elses expense??

xoxo

It's Official, I am a Wanna Be Sugar Baby

Ok, I had rather written 'First Time' Sugar Baby, but I think I need a Sugar Daddy first to qualify for that.

After a bit of research, I found a website that looked like the right place to start. Seeking Arrangement is website that has been talked about on Playboy Radio, Good Morning America and CNN to name a few, as well as written about in The New York Times and The Globe and Mail. So, I signed up.

In about 12 hours I was a new and Approved Member and about 10 minutes later I had my first email from a potential Sugar Daddy. He was from Seattle, WA and after my first response to him he offered to fly me out to see him. Deleted.

5 mins later, a new email, Wow, Im popular! ahahaha....this guy seems nice though, and I am surprised to say he is quite attractive too! I tell him this and his response,"That's not really me" Ouch, bad start, I value honesty, however after having him explain that when he first opened his account he was married (now separated) I understood. He also had no problem emailing me real pictures of himself.

Wow, not too bad and not too much different than the fake profile photo either. This is going ok so far. After a few emails back and forth we added each other to MSN and spent an hour asking and answering questions, just as you would with anyone else you had just met.

He is not a first time Sugar Daddy and he has no problem with me being a first time Sugar Baby. He was also ok with the fact that I am a single mother of two young children although he had never wanted kids himself. I told him a little more about me and he told me much about him.

It seems we are both looking for the same type of beneficial relationship here, and we both value honesty as well as find it important that there is chemistry between is for this to work. We decided that we will continue to talk over the next few days until we find a mutual day that will work for us to get together.

Honestly, Im kind of excited but nervous as hell at the same time....can I do this? Can I be a Sugar Baby? I mean, I have been independent since the age of 13, I don't get handouts, I have never borrowed money let alone just taken it for no reason.....

This will be interesting!

xoxo, Sugar Baby


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It's My Turn

After watching the Tyra Show yesterday, a show I normally do not care for, but was intrigued by the topic - "Sugar Daddies" I came to the conclusion that being a Sugar Baby seemed quite interesting.

I mean, watching these Sugar Baby's on the Tyra Banks Show, I found myself thinking, I am just as pretty as these girls, and well, a whole hell of a lot smarter, why the hell not? And at that moment I decided, It's My Turn.

It's My Turn to be taken care of, it's my turn to be spoiled and if there is a man out there that wants to do this for me, why not let him? Now, don't get me wrong, in no way am I ok with exchanging sex for money, I am not a prostitute.

The way I look at this is, how is it really any different than dating someone and getting to know each other? Besides the obvious benefits that come along with a Sugar Daddy and Sugar Baby Relationship; it is an arranged relationship with a mutual agreement of some sort, and you already know that he is financially well off, it really is no different than dating any other stranger.

In a true Sugar Daddy, Sugar Baby relationship, there will be a connection, there must be chemistry, a spark so to say. For some, it may get to the point where the relationship becomes more intimate, that is normal when two people have feelings and an attraction towards one another. However, to me, and this is MY opinion, if a woman meets a man, has no attraction for him and has sex with him in return for cash or gifts, this makes you a prostitute.

So, with this said, so you understand where I am coming from and where I intend to go, I feel, why not date a man who I know ahead of time wants to spoil me and help me live a comfortable lifestyle?

xoxo, Sugar Baby