Sugar Daddy #3 and Some Girl on Girl Action

C is still away, until Saturday I believe. Im anxiously waiting for him to get back so we can meet. Until then, I have kept myself busy with taking to Jay. He is very open about the entire Sugar Daddy Sugar Baby Relationship which is great, but also a little intimidating to me since this all so new to me.

When he asked me what I wanted from a Sugar Daddy Sugar Baby Relationship I straight out told him that I wanted to be spoiled for once and why not date a guy who wants to spoil a girl? I also made it clear that attraction is important and that Im not a hooker looking to get paid for sex. Just wanted to make that clear.

So, on my Seeking Arrangement Profile it says Im open to both Men and Women, and while that is true, I wouldn't say I am a lesbian, but eery so often yes, there will be a girl I am attracted to. Jay really seems to like this, he keeps mentioning it. I thought this may be a great oppurtunity to also help a good friend of mine, well, my best friend. She is a single mom of three young kids and could use some finacial help for sure. Her and I have been Best Friends since Gr. 3 and have been through everything together. Well, almost everything....

I thought hey, if Jay likes some girl on girl action, why the hell not? My Best Friend and I could give him a show, I mean, not like her and I haven't fooled around before. Besides, getting it on with my best friend while some guy watches is much more appealing to me than having sex with some dude for money or gifts......couldn't do it....But hell, gimme a few drinks and my hot best friend, name the right price and you can watch all you like ahahahahaaa....Dont ask to join in though, not gonna happen.

On another note, everything that goes on with all of this I share with my boyfriend of course. We are very open and honest with each other. I think the idea of this kinda makes him hot.....but then my boyfriend gets turned on by a lot of things most boyfriends, let alone men, wouldn't. But hey, I love him!

Ugh, gotta go work....ttyl xoxo

Super Spy

So I decided since I'm pretty computer savvy, why not use my skills to spy on my potential Sugar Daddies. After all, I don't want to waste any time with a fake Sugar Daddy or Wanna Be...I don't have the time for that.

I haven't messaged M back, after chatting with C and spying on him, I'm way more interested in meeting him. Turns out he is who he says he is. How do I know? Well, I have his first name, his phone number, he told his job as well as where he lives. Put those into Google and if they are important enough, you get results ;)

Wow, this guy is a big deal, his name is all over the net. Now, of course I cannot tell you who he is, that would just be wrong, but what I can tell you is he is President of multiple major companies. He is also very kind and so far there is no pressure what so ever. I hate pressure!

So, hopefully I will meet C when he gets back from his trip. OMG, what will I wear? I need a Sugar Daddy to take me shopping for my date with my other Sugar Daddy...hahahhah...

Oh, and I think I need to do some research on Sugar Daddy Sugar Baby Relationship, who is supposed to chase who? It is like 50/50, do I chase him or let him chase me? Perhaps it depends on the man, oh, I dont know, I guess it's time to study....

Till next time,
xoxo

Sharing Myself

I figured I should say a bit about myself here as if anyone does happen to read this, they will only assume who I am.

I'm 28, I'm a single mom of two young children. I have been on my own since I was 13 and have done pretty well for myself considering all I have been through. I work and make decent money, just not enough to get me ahead, hence the reason I am looking for a Sugar Daddy.

I am smart, honest and a good person. I just feel why not let someone take care of me for once? I am a little run down here and tired of stressing about money! I want my kids to have a happy mommy, I want to be the best for them.

Ideally, I am hoping to find a Sugar Daddy who wants to get together no moe than once a week for some company, dinner, drinks, dancing etc.... In no way am I interested in a man who wants to buy me gifts or give me money for sex. No, no, Im not stupid, of course that is there intention, however, not all of them want a girl who is just going to put out on the first date. They like the chase, all men like a little challenge. no?

Anyhow, I cant say it will never happen, but only if there is a real connection and attraction. Ugh, I could never have sex for money, and yes I can say that for real as I have been offered many times as I am a former exoctic dancer and was offered all sorts of things for all sorts of things. I was one of the few dancers that said no to these men, Im just not that desperate for cash and I do have morals, thank you ;)

Oh, did I mention that I have a boyfriend?? hahaha...I guess that may be interesting to some. We have been together for almost 8 months and yes, he knows all about this and is ok with it. I guess the reason being that right now, with him going back to school he cannot afford to help me out like he wishes he could. He is also very open and as long as I am honest with him, he is ok with me doing whatever makes me happy. Now, of course, I do not yet have a Suggar Daddy so who knows if he will feel the same once I actually find one and start seeing him.

Only time will tell....

xoxo

Hmmm....Pepe' s Paradise...I think I will pass...

Wow, there are quite some characters on this website, Seeking Arrangement. I was invited to Pepe's Paradise over in Mexico, but he only wants lazy women that are bisexual. Needless to say I passed, although lying on the beach all day does sound tempting.....

I started talking to another guy, we shall call him C. He is quite charming. He is 45 and has two children as well, although much older than mine. He seems like quite a gentleman and is interested in becoming friends first before anything else. I felt a lot less pressure from C than I did the first guy, who we will call M.

I haven't talked to M again, mainly because I am more interested in C. He wanted to meet this weekend but it was too short notice for me so I asked him about meeting up this week but he is taking his son on a fishing trip so next week it is.

Thinking about meeting him is exciting to me right now, mainly because of the potential this could have. However, when it comes to the actual day to meet I know my nerves will get me. That day will be the real test as to weather or not I can actually do this.

Until then, I am entertained with the emails I receive on the site. There are a lot of men looking for a travel partner. Maybe if I didn't have two kids.....could be fun. I mean, who wouldn't love to travel the world at someone elses expense??

xoxo

It's Official, I am a Wanna Be Sugar Baby

Ok, I had rather written 'First Time' Sugar Baby, but I think I need a Sugar Daddy first to qualify for that.

After a bit of research, I found a website that looked like the right place to start. Seeking Arrangement is website that has been talked about on Playboy Radio, Good Morning America and CNN to name a few, as well as written about in The New York Times and The Globe and Mail. So, I signed up.

In about 12 hours I was a new and Approved Member and about 10 minutes later I had my first email from a potential Sugar Daddy. He was from Seattle, WA and after my first response to him he offered to fly me out to see him. Deleted.

5 mins later, a new email, Wow, Im popular! ahahaha....this guy seems nice though, and I am surprised to say he is quite attractive too! I tell him this and his response,"That's not really me" Ouch, bad start, I value honesty, however after having him explain that when he first opened his account he was married (now separated) I understood. He also had no problem emailing me real pictures of himself.

Wow, not too bad and not too much different than the fake profile photo either. This is going ok so far. After a few emails back and forth we added each other to MSN and spent an hour asking and answering questions, just as you would with anyone else you had just met.

He is not a first time Sugar Daddy and he has no problem with me being a first time Sugar Baby. He was also ok with the fact that I am a single mother of two young children although he had never wanted kids himself. I told him a little more about me and he told me much about him.

It seems we are both looking for the same type of beneficial relationship here, and we both value honesty as well as find it important that there is chemistry between is for this to work. We decided that we will continue to talk over the next few days until we find a mutual day that will work for us to get together.

Honestly, Im kind of excited but nervous as hell at the same time....can I do this? Can I be a Sugar Baby? I mean, I have been independent since the age of 13, I don't get handouts, I have never borrowed money let alone just taken it for no reason.....

This will be interesting!

xoxo, Sugar Baby


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It's My Turn

After watching the Tyra Show yesterday, a show I normally do not care for, but was intrigued by the topic - "Sugar Daddies" I came to the conclusion that being a Sugar Baby seemed quite interesting.

I mean, watching these Sugar Baby's on the Tyra Banks Show, I found myself thinking, I am just as pretty as these girls, and well, a whole hell of a lot smarter, why the hell not? And at that moment I decided, It's My Turn.

It's My Turn to be taken care of, it's my turn to be spoiled and if there is a man out there that wants to do this for me, why not let him? Now, don't get me wrong, in no way am I ok with exchanging sex for money, I am not a prostitute.

The way I look at this is, how is it really any different than dating someone and getting to know each other? Besides the obvious benefits that come along with a Sugar Daddy and Sugar Baby Relationship; it is an arranged relationship with a mutual agreement of some sort, and you already know that he is financially well off, it really is no different than dating any other stranger.

In a true Sugar Daddy, Sugar Baby relationship, there will be a connection, there must be chemistry, a spark so to say. For some, it may get to the point where the relationship becomes more intimate, that is normal when two people have feelings and an attraction towards one another. However, to me, and this is MY opinion, if a woman meets a man, has no attraction for him and has sex with him in return for cash or gifts, this makes you a prostitute.

So, with this said, so you understand where I am coming from and where I intend to go, I feel, why not date a man who I know ahead of time wants to spoil me and help me live a comfortable lifestyle?

xoxo, Sugar Baby